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A Goodbye to Frankie & Benny's, Glasgow Airport’s Jewel

May 13, 2025 by Chris Quilietti in Lifestyle

It can be hard to say goodbye to something that has meant a great deal to you across your life.

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May 13, 2025 /Chris Quilietti
op-ed
Lifestyle
Comment

The Ride NYC!

April 25, 2025 by Chris Quilietti in Travel

“You have to take off your cringe, fold it up and leave it at the door.”

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April 25, 2025 /Chris Quilietti
New York
Travel

Try Not to Fall in Love with New York

April 25, 2025 by Chris Quilietti in Travel

A try-hard and Insightful piece about visiting New York for the first time.

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April 25, 2025 /Chris Quilietti
New York, HOME
Travel

Bottomless Pasta in New York 

April 25, 2025 by Chris Quilietti in Travel

Never ending fresh pasta, a recommendation from a New Yorker.

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April 25, 2025 /Chris Quilietti
New York
Travel

Why We Should Ban Cats In Scotland

February 08, 2025 by Chris Quilietti

I believe cats have had their day.

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February 08, 2025 /Chris Quilietti

A Day Trip to Bratislava, Slovakia’s quirky capital

July 22, 2024 by Chris Quilietti in Travel

Things to do on a day trip to Bratislava, Slovakia’s quirky capital.

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July 22, 2024 /Chris Quilietti
Europe
Travel

Rocky Horror in Queens Park, Glasgow.

July 15, 2024 by Chris Quilietti in Lifestyle

It’s an astounding time at the free open air cinema at Queen’s Park Arena in the Southside of Glasgow. 

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July 15, 2024 /Chris Quilietti
glasgow
Lifestyle

InSeine - Cleaning Up for the Olympics

June 29, 2024 by Chris Quilietti in Lifestyle

If only it didn't take the eyes of the world, but the eyes of Parisians to clean up their historic rivière.

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June 29, 2024 /Chris Quilietti
op-ed, front
Lifestyle

The Thai Bar & Restaurant, a treat in the Southside of Glasgow

January 28, 2024 by Chris Quilietti in Lifestyle, Food and Drink

The Thai is absolutely worth your time.

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January 28, 2024 /Chris Quilietti
Food
Lifestyle, Food and Drink

Wonka Review - A Bad Musical Wrapped in a Good Film

January 28, 2024 by Chris Quilietti in Lifestyle, Review

I can review the film in one sentence. Wonka is a great, feel-good, family film, but it’s not a good musical.

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January 28, 2024 /Chris Quilietti
Review, musical, op-ed
Lifestyle, Review

A Unique Place To Stay in the Cairngorms

January 23, 2024 by Chris Quilietti in Travel, Review

Spend the night in Cromdale Tran Station Camping Coach, a unique place to stay in the Cairngorms.

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January 23, 2024 /Chris Quilietti
Scotland, Review
Travel, Review

Photo by Nikola Johnny Mirkovic on Unsplash

Candles Sit On Polish Graves

January 14, 2024 by Chris Quilietti in Lifestyle

Szczecinek, Poland - it was damp underfoot.


“This place is massive,” my partner told me over the thud of the car door. I'm drawn to a booth to the right side of the cemetery entrance. A white wooden booth with a red metal roof, Znicze printed on its green canopy. Further down, a matching structure, both selling glass candle holders. Some are ornate with painted glass and religious symbols, in various sizes and shapes.

Today trade is good for the candle sellers. Those who do not have one seek out the red roofs before walking up the wooded lane to visit lost relatives, most accompanied by the ones they have left.

At a distance I don't notice anything unusual but as each row folds past, headstones sit on top of slabs - slabs that cover the entirety of the grave. Some are marble-like, others stone or granite. All placed in the same way - above, to protect what’s below. Perfect rectangles. Aside from the occasional block that appears to be made to resemble the lid of a coffin.

Accustomed as I am to the bureaucracy of headstones, I asked if names are added with each new occupant. "Often the entire slab and headstone are replaced” I'm told.

Each section is squared off by a hedge. Many graves have a seat to the side or front that doubles as a container for cleaning tools - brushes, cloths. Once you have taken the time to clean, you can sit with a loved one and rest. Standing by a  grave now strikes me as formal - something reserved for the funeral, not to be done afterwards.

Candles lit the day before are still burning. Their glow is faint through the tinted glass, but still present. Every grave has a candle; some have many, while others, less tended, have one or two. With winter's daylight fading, the sea of flickering is overwhelming.

The Polish respect for the dead is clear. A land that has known conflict and prosperity, the memory of this ground is deep. On the way back, I pass a memorial to Russian soldiers who fought against the Germans in the Second World War to liberate the town. A broken stone arch that looks to have survived a battle itself.

Passing couples and families, I bow my head to an older man making his way into the cemetery alone. He is holding a candle.

We return home for Christmas dinner.

January 14, 2024 /Chris Quilietti
Lifestyle

New Year's Eve in Vienna

January 14, 2024 by Chris Quilietti in Travel, Lifestyle

Warm and traditional, Vienna is a spectacular place to spend New Year’s Eve.

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January 14, 2024 /Chris Quilietti
Europe, long read
Travel, Lifestyle

Athens Is Endless

December 12, 2023 by Chris Quilietti in Travel

Take a visit to one of the most real and vibrant cities in the world.

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December 12, 2023 /Chris Quilietti
Europe
Travel

The Dolls - Over 25 Years of Drag in Athens

July 10, 2023 by Chris Quilietti in LGBT, Lifestyle

Pay a visit to this legendary drag show that is full of laughs and heart. 

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July 10, 2023 /Chris Quilietti
Europe
LGBT, Lifestyle

The Cats of Athens

July 08, 2023 by Chris Quilietti in Travel

One way to discover this historic city is through the eyes of its adorable four-legged population. 

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July 08, 2023 /Chris Quilietti
Europe, front
Travel

2023 Writers Strike - An Online Chronicle

May 03, 2023 by Chris Quilietti in Radio

A collection of details and accounts of the 2023 Writers Guild of America strike.

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May 03, 2023 /Chris Quilietti
Media
Radio

Mezcal - The Best Taco In Glasgow?

April 30, 2023 by Chris Quilietti in Review, Lifestyle, Food and Drink

Mezcal has been serving up some of Glasgow’s most popular Mexican dishes and some truly fantastic tacos since 2019.

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April 30, 2023 /Chris Quilietti
Food, Review
Review, Lifestyle, Food and Drink

Please Don’t Sing Along at the Theatre

April 17, 2023 by Chris Quilietti in Lifestyle

With discussion around theater etiquette and audience behavior, should you sing along when you go to see a show? No, probably not.

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April 17, 2023 /Chris Quilietti
theatre, op-ed
Lifestyle

Have we Forgotten the True Meaning of Pancake Tuesday?

February 20, 2023 by Chris Quilietti in Lifestyle

With supermarkets throwing more at us every year, have we forgotten the true meaning behind Pancake Tuesday?

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February 20, 2023 /Chris Quilietti
Food, op-ed
Lifestyle
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